Are you thinking about reuniting with your ex boyfriend after a break up? While this is can be exciting as you reminisce about all the good times that you had with your ex boyfriend, there are some things you should really think about before You and your ex boyfriend reunite.
We all know or heard of someone who went through a break and get back together with their ex and have a strong relationship. At the same time, we know someone who seems to always be in an on-again and off-again relationship with someone. The reason these on-again and off-again relationships happen because the couple got back together for all the wrong reasons and did not fully deal with the problems that lead to the break up.
While you are excited and looking forward to reliving the great moments with an ex, take a little time and consider these following issues:
Old Wounds need to be healed:
There was a reason for the breakup, has this been fixed or resolved? Just having regrets about the way things ended is not enough, there must be a change. The problems that lead to the break up must either be solved or mutually decided that the break issues are not longer conflicts. If this is not done, it will probably lead to another break up down the road.
Let go of old expectations:
If you and your ex boyfriend do decide to go through and reunite, it is best to treat the relationship as a new relationship. You will need time to rebuild the trust and friendship. It is also important to reassess your goals as a couple and work on creating a new life together. Don’t let emotions make decisions about reuniting or about the new relationship.
This can be very tough. As you are probably feeling the euphoria of falling in love once again with your ex boyfriend. However, to allow these feeling control your decisions to get back together with your ex can be a mistake. You will want to think calmly and make rational decisions about starting a new relationship with your ex. If you do not you may regret it later.
If you do decide to get back with your ex boyfriend, be sure the both of you are really ready for another try at the relationship.
It is very possible to that with all the emotion and desire to reunite with your ex boyfriend to believe he has changed. However, if this is not true, you may be setting yourself up for failure. It is best to be honest with yourself and your ex to make sure that two of you do not follow the same road that led to the first breakup.
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